Easy.

FiQ
Who are we to judge? No matter friend or foe. No matter what authority we have. For humans make mistakes, even in judging. Nobody is perfect. Why are we to judge? To compare? Or self satisfaction?
nelvie
its easy to ask that isnt it?
nelvie
but yet we do judge..
nelvie
conciously or subconciously..
FiQ
hahah.. u want to start a debate?
nelvie
dude..
nelvie
u started it man..
nelvie
im jsut stating facts..
FiQ
u replied
nelvie
with facts..
FiQ
mine too obviously, the first post
FiQ
let me think something smart to reply
nelvie
lol
go google smth ar dude..
FiQ
hahaha.. i dont google for poetic shit man.. only when it requires heavy facts
nelvie
then figure out a good comeback to whut i said man..
nelvie
its fine..take ur time..
FiQ
hmm.. i love to counter that man, but by debating against u is like contradicting myself.. i do judge people weither i like it or not.. hahaha
nelvie
hahaha
so 'who are we to judge?'
FiQ
that is a question for myself brader.. i hate judging, cause i know, when i do it, its for self satisfactory..
there's a bitch in everyone
nelvie
exactly man..so dont be a hypocrite..excapt the facts and play around with it..
FiQ
but we are able to change
FiQ
not being hypocrite
nelvie
change is good..
nelvie
but can u?
nelvie
ill ask myself the same question..
nelvie
but why try so hard to change smth we are..
nelvie
isnt it better to sontinue being ourselvres but wiser?
nelvie
so instead of not judging..we do..but in s much smarter way..
nelvie
haha
nelvie
k la dude..
nelvie
gimme a good comebak man..
nelvie
prolly whenur high or smth..
FiQ
hahahaha
nelvie
imma head off..
laters.
FiQ
hmm..
aite
FiQ
will post it tonight
FiQ
eh.. yam cha?
nelvie
nah going over to hartamas
catch u tomms ar
chow


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8/26/2008
3:34:48 AM
nelvie
FiQ
no post?

FiQ says:
i did send
FiQ says:
i do believe i can change, actually i have realized myself changing, to a better person.. its good to accept ourselves for who we are, but why not make a little amendments for the better good, self improvement.. are u against changes? improvements?
FiQ says:
do not mistook it for insecurity.. in life, we study, we learn, and we progress and try to achieve perfection.. why not? to make improvement in life is hard, it needs discipline.. we make changes but accepting changes isn’t always easy..
FiQ says:
judging in a smarter way? we don’t judge, but evaluate.. we accept rather than complaining and make changes to make progress for ourselves.. it might have sounded a little selfish, to pick one’s flaw for self-improvement.. but it helps us to think more positively, from my own experience.. that my friend is much wiser than judging
nelvie says:
it might have sounded a little selfish, to pick one’s flaw for self-improvement..
nelvie says:
think that wud be the whole point rite?
nelvie says:
but whoever said anything about taking in consideration another's flaw?
nelvie says:
see the thing is, i agree totally its wrong to judge..
nelvie says:
but the point is, lets talk about facts..
nelvie says:
u wanna talk about change, evyone can change. it is not impossible
nelvie says:
but the time ur gonna take to implement the change..
nelvie says:
think about that..
nelvie says:
and in that time, think about the amount of ppl who are going to be judged by us..
nelvie says:
like i said earlier, conciously or sub conciously..
nelvie says:
the fact is, we judge..
nelvie says:
its human nature to judge..
nelvie says:
and i think to reach the stage of change is going to be a long long journey my fren..
FiQ says:
dude.. not judge.. we evaluate
nelvie says:
it is the same thing my friend..
nelvie says:
haha
FiQ says:
omg dude.. its 350
nelvie says:
by evaluating, were going to come up with our own perspective of a person rite?
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
same thing..
nelvie says:
evaluate = judge, in a nicer term..
nelvie says:
hahaha
FiQ says:
go see dictionary the meaning of judge and evaluate
FiQ says:
no man!
nelvie says:
evaluate = To examine and judge carefully; appraise.
nelvie says:
dictionary?
FiQ says:
online?
FiQ says:
haha
nelvie says:
why dont u check it out dude..
nelvie says:
hahah
nelvie says:
http://www.answers.com/topic/evaluate?method=26&initiator=answertip:more
FiQ says:
me? no thanks.. i was playing word challenge with pradeep since 2
nelvie says:
check it out..
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
so no thanks
FiQ says:
words can kill
FiQ says:
for now
FiQ says:
shit
nelvie says:
then dont ask me to look it up in a freakin dictionary dude..i am a walkin dictionary..
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
hahaha
FiQ says:
woah~
nelvie says:
pradeep came up witht hat shyt about judgin huh?
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
thats overly confident no?
FiQ says:
nope
nelvie says:
which is a good thing..
nelvie says:
no?
nelvie says:
i dont think its overly..
FiQ says:
wait.. are u saying i got my ideas from hium?
nelvie says:
i think its just plain confident
FiQ says:
that i am not original?
FiQ says:
*sweat*
FiQ says:
haha
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
nah bro..cmon..
nelvie says:
u did bring up some good points..
FiQ says:
i know i did
nelvie says:
but u need to talk about facts more man
FiQ says:
honestly i think i have more facts than u do
FiQ says:
woah
nelvie says:
exactly..u 'think'
nelvie says:
u even askd me to look up the 'difference' between evaluate and judge..
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
cause it is clear, i dont have to state that fact
nelvie says:
look up the diff between thoughts and facts man
FiQ says:
it is different.. yes it might be judge but in a nicer way
nelvie says:
and whut is not nice about judge?
nelvie says:
and dude..cmon..
nelvie says:
ur kiddin me rite?
FiQ says:
wait let me think
FiQ says:
laging
nelvie says:
it might be judge ina nicer way..and theres a difference?
nelvie says:
cmon man
FiQ says:
and i thought u are a walking dict? play with the words.. the beauty of words
FiQ says:
to judge means we are superior than the subject but to evaluate means to compare and shows equality
FiQ says:
cause i would like to think that i am no superior than anyone and is open to evaluate and to be evaluated
FiQ says:
it is a more acceptable term
nelvie says:
to judge is to form an opinion or estimation of after careful consideration..
FiQ says:
that is why i said "who are we to judge"
nelvie says:
whut is so not acceptable about that term?
FiQ says:
where did u get that from?
nelvie says:
online dictionary..
nelvie says:
facts man..
nelvie says:
facts..
nelvie says:
when we use thought, anything can seem possible..and correct..
nelvie says:
but thats the reason why facts are around..
FiQ says:
i used thought?
nelvie says:
so ur gonna contradict now?
FiQ says:
sigh.. i will revise my post
FiQ says:
tunggu
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
sure
FiQ says:
i did not use thought macha
FiQ says:
have u been drinking?
FiQ says:
form an opinion of or pass judgment
http://www.onlinedictionary.com/index.aspx
FiQ says:
it did not say carefully
FiQ says:
u said onlinedictionary, and i went check
FiQ says:
please make sure u qoute the right source
FiQ says:
thank u
FiQ says:
haha
FiQ says:
evaluate - place a value on
nelvie says:
http://www.answers.com/topic/evaluate?method=26&initiator=answertip:more
FiQ says:
wah tukar source
nelvie says:
http://www.answers.com/judge
nelvie says:
why u literally go to online dictionary?
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
ceh
FiQ says:
thinking
FiQ says:
sigh.. i shouldnt have put the last few arguements.. to judge is actually to evaluate.. synonym.. but i said before that has a fucking point
FiQ says:
my bad
FiQ says:
yeah.. i guess i just did contradict myself
FiQ says:
cis
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
thank you!
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
1-0
FiQ says:
nice debate.. hahaha
FiQ says:
should do this more often..
FiQ says:
but not at 4am la
nelvie says:
hahah
nelvie says:
sure thing man..
nelvie says:
nice one..
FiQ says:
haha.. gg gg
FiQ says:
k man.. i need to go to bed now yo.. i'll think of something to argue about tomorrow.. ciao
nelvie says:
k cun..
nelvie says:
show
nelvie says:
chow*


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Red always wins .. another time maybe shafiq?