Gary turns 21

So the youngest member of our group finally turns 21. His birthday was on the 12th of August by the way. So for all you guys who went "Oh shit!", yeah you forgot to wish him. After weeks and weeks of deliberating on where to celebrate this coming of age (he mentioned Republic, M.O.S., Laundry, Somo - all in passing), he finally came up with dinner at his place. Not that it was bad or anything. Dinner was good, people were friendly, birthday boy got tipsy. Not a bad way to celebrate one's 21st. The girl Gary feeds a piece of cake to is his girlfriend by the way.

So Gary if and when you read this, Happy 21st birthday! Welcome to the club dude. And wear your present with pride.

You better.

-x-

Easy.

FiQ
Who are we to judge? No matter friend or foe. No matter what authority we have. For humans make mistakes, even in judging. Nobody is perfect. Why are we to judge? To compare? Or self satisfaction?
nelvie
its easy to ask that isnt it?
nelvie
but yet we do judge..
nelvie
conciously or subconciously..
FiQ
hahah.. u want to start a debate?
nelvie
dude..
nelvie
u started it man..
nelvie
im jsut stating facts..
FiQ
u replied
nelvie
with facts..
FiQ
mine too obviously, the first post
FiQ
let me think something smart to reply
nelvie
lol
go google smth ar dude..
FiQ
hahaha.. i dont google for poetic shit man.. only when it requires heavy facts
nelvie
then figure out a good comeback to whut i said man..
nelvie
its fine..take ur time..
FiQ
hmm.. i love to counter that man, but by debating against u is like contradicting myself.. i do judge people weither i like it or not.. hahaha
nelvie
hahaha
so 'who are we to judge?'
FiQ
that is a question for myself brader.. i hate judging, cause i know, when i do it, its for self satisfactory..
there's a bitch in everyone
nelvie
exactly man..so dont be a hypocrite..excapt the facts and play around with it..
FiQ
but we are able to change
FiQ
not being hypocrite
nelvie
change is good..
nelvie
but can u?
nelvie
ill ask myself the same question..
nelvie
but why try so hard to change smth we are..
nelvie
isnt it better to sontinue being ourselvres but wiser?
nelvie
so instead of not judging..we do..but in s much smarter way..
nelvie
haha
nelvie
k la dude..
nelvie
gimme a good comebak man..
nelvie
prolly whenur high or smth..
FiQ
hahahaha
nelvie
imma head off..
laters.
FiQ
hmm..
aite
FiQ
will post it tonight
FiQ
eh.. yam cha?
nelvie
nah going over to hartamas
catch u tomms ar
chow


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8/26/2008
3:34:48 AM
nelvie
FiQ
no post?

FiQ says:
i did send
FiQ says:
i do believe i can change, actually i have realized myself changing, to a better person.. its good to accept ourselves for who we are, but why not make a little amendments for the better good, self improvement.. are u against changes? improvements?
FiQ says:
do not mistook it for insecurity.. in life, we study, we learn, and we progress and try to achieve perfection.. why not? to make improvement in life is hard, it needs discipline.. we make changes but accepting changes isn’t always easy..
FiQ says:
judging in a smarter way? we don’t judge, but evaluate.. we accept rather than complaining and make changes to make progress for ourselves.. it might have sounded a little selfish, to pick one’s flaw for self-improvement.. but it helps us to think more positively, from my own experience.. that my friend is much wiser than judging
nelvie says:
it might have sounded a little selfish, to pick one’s flaw for self-improvement..
nelvie says:
think that wud be the whole point rite?
nelvie says:
but whoever said anything about taking in consideration another's flaw?
nelvie says:
see the thing is, i agree totally its wrong to judge..
nelvie says:
but the point is, lets talk about facts..
nelvie says:
u wanna talk about change, evyone can change. it is not impossible
nelvie says:
but the time ur gonna take to implement the change..
nelvie says:
think about that..
nelvie says:
and in that time, think about the amount of ppl who are going to be judged by us..
nelvie says:
like i said earlier, conciously or sub conciously..
nelvie says:
the fact is, we judge..
nelvie says:
its human nature to judge..
nelvie says:
and i think to reach the stage of change is going to be a long long journey my fren..
FiQ says:
dude.. not judge.. we evaluate
nelvie says:
it is the same thing my friend..
nelvie says:
haha
FiQ says:
omg dude.. its 350
nelvie says:
by evaluating, were going to come up with our own perspective of a person rite?
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
same thing..
nelvie says:
evaluate = judge, in a nicer term..
nelvie says:
hahaha
FiQ says:
go see dictionary the meaning of judge and evaluate
FiQ says:
no man!
nelvie says:
evaluate = To examine and judge carefully; appraise.
nelvie says:
dictionary?
FiQ says:
online?
FiQ says:
haha
nelvie says:
why dont u check it out dude..
nelvie says:
hahah
nelvie says:
http://www.answers.com/topic/evaluate?method=26&initiator=answertip:more
FiQ says:
me? no thanks.. i was playing word challenge with pradeep since 2
nelvie says:
check it out..
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
so no thanks
FiQ says:
words can kill
FiQ says:
for now
FiQ says:
shit
nelvie says:
then dont ask me to look it up in a freakin dictionary dude..i am a walkin dictionary..
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
hahaha
FiQ says:
woah~
nelvie says:
pradeep came up witht hat shyt about judgin huh?
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
thats overly confident no?
FiQ says:
nope
nelvie says:
which is a good thing..
nelvie says:
no?
nelvie says:
i dont think its overly..
FiQ says:
wait.. are u saying i got my ideas from hium?
nelvie says:
i think its just plain confident
FiQ says:
that i am not original?
FiQ says:
*sweat*
FiQ says:
haha
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
nah bro..cmon..
nelvie says:
u did bring up some good points..
FiQ says:
i know i did
nelvie says:
but u need to talk about facts more man
FiQ says:
honestly i think i have more facts than u do
FiQ says:
woah
nelvie says:
exactly..u 'think'
nelvie says:
u even askd me to look up the 'difference' between evaluate and judge..
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
cause it is clear, i dont have to state that fact
nelvie says:
look up the diff between thoughts and facts man
FiQ says:
it is different.. yes it might be judge but in a nicer way
nelvie says:
and whut is not nice about judge?
nelvie says:
and dude..cmon..
nelvie says:
ur kiddin me rite?
FiQ says:
wait let me think
FiQ says:
laging
nelvie says:
it might be judge ina nicer way..and theres a difference?
nelvie says:
cmon man
FiQ says:
and i thought u are a walking dict? play with the words.. the beauty of words
FiQ says:
to judge means we are superior than the subject but to evaluate means to compare and shows equality
FiQ says:
cause i would like to think that i am no superior than anyone and is open to evaluate and to be evaluated
FiQ says:
it is a more acceptable term
nelvie says:
to judge is to form an opinion or estimation of after careful consideration..
FiQ says:
that is why i said "who are we to judge"
nelvie says:
whut is so not acceptable about that term?
FiQ says:
where did u get that from?
nelvie says:
online dictionary..
nelvie says:
facts man..
nelvie says:
facts..
nelvie says:
when we use thought, anything can seem possible..and correct..
nelvie says:
but thats the reason why facts are around..
FiQ says:
i used thought?
nelvie says:
so ur gonna contradict now?
FiQ says:
sigh.. i will revise my post
FiQ says:
tunggu
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
sure
FiQ says:
i did not use thought macha
FiQ says:
have u been drinking?
FiQ says:
form an opinion of or pass judgment
http://www.onlinedictionary.com/index.aspx
FiQ says:
it did not say carefully
FiQ says:
u said onlinedictionary, and i went check
FiQ says:
please make sure u qoute the right source
FiQ says:
thank u
FiQ says:
haha
FiQ says:
evaluate - place a value on
nelvie says:
http://www.answers.com/topic/evaluate?method=26&initiator=answertip:more
FiQ says:
wah tukar source
nelvie says:
http://www.answers.com/judge
nelvie says:
why u literally go to online dictionary?
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
ceh
FiQ says:
thinking
FiQ says:
sigh.. i shouldnt have put the last few arguements.. to judge is actually to evaluate.. synonym.. but i said before that has a fucking point
FiQ says:
my bad
FiQ says:
yeah.. i guess i just did contradict myself
FiQ says:
cis
nelvie says:
lol
nelvie says:
thank you!
nelvie says:
lol
FiQ says:
1-0
FiQ says:
nice debate.. hahaha
FiQ says:
should do this more often..
FiQ says:
but not at 4am la
nelvie says:
hahah
nelvie says:
sure thing man..
nelvie says:
nice one..
FiQ says:
haha.. gg gg
FiQ says:
k man.. i need to go to bed now yo.. i'll think of something to argue about tomorrow.. ciao
nelvie says:
k cun..
nelvie says:
show
nelvie says:
chow*


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Red always wins .. another time maybe shafiq?

reality

Good to know ur doing good cliffy.

So as most of u shud prolly know im no longer workin with the good ol man, join'd another company over in KL call'd scicom, google it for futher information.

I've actually been fuckin up quite alot lately, no control over myself, going all out without thinkin about the next day, not going to work, gettin really wasted, sleeping while driving; after getting wasted, in short, im just losing it. To my defence i'd say this kinda shyt normally happens when we do the same routine everyday. Once we get a chance to let go we over do it. Plus did i mention i work in a very stressfull environment, one that fucks with ur emotions every 7 mins, on average. So when i do stuff like that its almost like a stress reliever. Talkin about stress relievers, i rmmbr when i went for the interview the manager askd me 'whut wud u do if ur really stressd up? - id play my guitar.. lol.. think so ar!

Here comes the painful part; reality. No matter whut i say to defend myself, whut im doing is wrong. Prolly Cliffie can gimme some tips on how to be more matured, eh? No matter how sloshd i get, i still have to wake up the next day, and work. Honestly, fuck the asswipe who created this system. Why cant evryone just enjoy rite? without givin a rats ass about anything. That'd be awesome wudn it? But no, we have to work our way up, gain experiences, educate ourselves to be better ppl, and all this is done thru time. It'd be awesome if we were like dotA heroes wudn it? Make money and buy experience. The best part is, after voicing out all this, theres still one thing that'll never change, REALITY.

Reality is ur fuckd. When everything is going on well, smth will happen. All we have to blame after that is our ownself. I'll be back with more of this, wanna eat now.

- blink.

- that jamaican BOLT dude really can run balls. damn

Thanks for addressing me. Now I feel like I'm a part with all you faggots. And yeah, I am probably the biggest practitioner but I can always go back to my root and change my faggits behavior. There's a saying, "Once you go black, you never go back." Sorry vjay and nelle, you guys are faggots forever.

Happy birthday gayry. Yeah, I think its time for you to pop your black cherry and show us you're a true faggot. Take it from behind like a man.

I'll start off by telling you guys I lost $700 in 4 days playing poker. So, the purchase of my plane ticket back home will be on hold for a few weeks. Anyway, it has been almost 2 years since I've seen you guys. While gayry turned 21, I'm about to be 23 soon. I don't know about you guys, but I've changed a lot. Joke aside, I matured a lot. Maybe when you guys see me next year, you won't think I'm as undignified as I used to be. This semester would be my crucial semester. The semester that decides whether I'll be able to pay off my $15k education dept in a year or in 5 years. The semester that decides whether I'll be a respected programmer or just another college graduate. I'll be real stress this semester. I don't want to be a screw up. Some of you guys know I dropped my last semester because I was going to fail it. I can't afford that again. I'm retaking the courses while maintaining my GPA. It's going to be hard but pray that I will succeed.

Anyway, I'm being transparent in hope that you guys will do the same in return. I really want to know how you guys are doing. It's hard to talk to everyone. In fact, I hardly talk to anyone anymore. So keep me up to date. Pretty emo entry. LOL.

- ah ton (wtf gay name is this)

The 'not so' forgotten

oh shyt, no wonder i was so sure i forgot someone in the intro, cliffie... So sorry man, really didnt mean to. Just got back from gay-rie's 21st bday gatherin at his place, hopefully pics will be updated soon. vjay?

I remember in one of my previous posts in me own blog i stated reasons why girls shudn drive. Today, some girls proved my points. Love it when that happens! Anyways, a BIG WELCOME to GAYRY @ carpet, btw, who just join'd us in becummin a 21 year old fcuk. Time to lose that virginity man. go hard! haha

Cliffie,

you are not forgotten my friend, rest assured. Cliffton @ ah ton is one of us as well, yes yes he's gay too. Probably one of the strongest practitioners among us. Start contributing to this place dick, fill us in on the shyt thats going down over there.. he's in the good ol states btw.

- blink

First time blogger

Hi all,
This is my first time blogging so bare with me.Just wanted to try this shit and get this blog started.As u all know i wasnt in the pic lar.Have the tendency to miss all the happening activities but well... thats life.Anyways Ive been to Taipei recently.Not much different from wat u see in KL actually. Roads are dirty,hawkers every corner,people everywhere and blablabla.Talking about people there, i expected to see more hot chicks compare to KL lar.... This is because i usually watch those Taiwan game shows and 90% of the chicks are hot.The game show i watch not only show acter/acctress.I guess KL isnt that bad after all.And every 5 shops apart on a row of shops is a 7eleven.People there really like 7eleven i guess.Thats all i can tell u about taipei for now.I heard the electronic stuff there are really cheap but i had no time to check how true it is.Will update on that the next time i go again.Later- Fly

us

Just realised there's a few of us missing. hmm. Probably in a few more posts the rest will appear.

Its really weird coz i really have no idea how all of us; who have different attitudes, point of views, can actually click. fuckin dicks. haha sorry just had to. Anyways, this picture was taken at brandon @ bob sisters wedding, melacca. Not all of us were there. Pretty sure we were wasted. hmm.

Not sure who came up with 'friends are gays' but who cares anyways. We consist of andrew @ en tah, brandon @ bob, erwin @ fly, gayry @ 'to be confirmed', junken @ 'to be confirmed', kinghan @ bang, nelvie @ blink, wenghon @ flat, vijay @ X, yinkong @ ah kong, dan lain lain.

Rushin to finish up this post so its not gonna be really interesting, hopefully when the others start to type things will be even more interesting.

for now, - blink.

The Beginning.

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